Life: A Big ZERO..

Down to Earth होना बहुत जरुरी है.. खुद को जीरो मान के चलने में आखिर बुराई ही क्या है..? उसके बाद जो सफलता मिलती है उसका फ्लेवर ही अलग होता है और सबसे बड़ा फायदा ये कि तब असफल होने पर सुसाइड करने वाली फीलिंग नहीं आती.. नाही खुद के बारे में नकारात्मक भाव आते हैं..
बाकी इस दुनिया का क्या.. यहाँ तो अधिकतर लोग आपको खुद के करनी का बखान करने वाले मिलेंगे.. ;)
जो हम खुद को जज करते हैं, वो सबसे महत्वपूर्ण होता है.. क्यूंकि दूसरे आपको जज नहीं करते, वो आपको चश्मा बना के खुद को जज करते हैं.. अगर ऐसा नहीं होता तो आप एक ही वक़्त में किसी के लिए अच्छे और दूसरे के लिए बुरे नहीं हो जाते.. ! :)

There is always a big difference between what we say and how people understand it and this mostly creates a bad image of former in the eyes of latter..
I said that we should assume ourselves zero first and then we should begin..  Many people got it differently, they related it with negative thinking..
We Indians are emotional fools.. We have another achievement in our bag, we always congratulate ourselves for inventing zero ! Will you  confirm whether that zero was materialistic zero or emotional one ! I have a reason to prove my logic.. Have u one ?
If not, then I am relating that zero with emotions.. :) When we have nothing much to lose then we have an unseen advantage ! We have everything to gain.. Understanding it on number line.. Zero is non-negative.. Failure should be considered zero instead of negative.. Everyone who thinks that this is negative thinking should think over it.. Zero is emotionally full of potential.. It has an ocean of opportunities.. If you dont believe then either ask A. Raja and I bet that you cannot count the zeros in his scam at first attempt or simply pick a copy and pen, write two numbers, one negative and the other positive, now try placing zeros to the right of it.. !! Here it is, Do u find the difference.. ?? :)


I will try to open myself more and will try to write more clearly.. For people who related it with failure and negative thinking.. I must say that it has not relation with failure or success.. Neither it has to do anything with negative thinking, I hope, you will understand it with passage of time.. :)
For me failure and success are both zero.. Now you will think that How can it be so ? Are failure and success both same for me.. ? No.. never.. failure and success are different like evergreen forest and desert.. But they should not affect us, as human beings can adapt in desert as well as plain.. Practically failure is a crisis and success is like maiden monsoon rain.. But our thinking should change in neither situation.. Success should not bring undue pride and failure should not dishearten us..
:) :)
Hope you liked it and will give your response.. !
Next time I will talk about the role of others on our thinking pattern and their effect in our life..


I know that very less people read it and still I am planning to continue.. But still people find me pessimist..
Well leave, its their problem.. I dont have to do a lot with that.. But what about you.. Does it really not affect you too ? Is the opinion of others about you not important for you ? If you think that they are not important then you are wrong.. There are equal chances of them being correct.. Try to watch yourself from their eyes and if you find yourself wrong.. Then try to improve yourself.. But what if they are wrong ? Is it important even then ? No.. First dont respond to them.. But if they dont stop.. Avoid them.. Just behave like they dont exist for you.. The world for you then be like(Everyone-him/her).. The world for you is now less by one person.. Now you will ask how can this happen ? Then remember, everything I am writing here is about our thinking pattern, not about practical reality..